'People change themselves or time changes them'

When we talk about time, one thing that strikes our mind is changes. People often relate time with changes whenever they share their stories and experiences. I agree and I think you should also agree to this thing that whenever we meet someone, we try to show the best version of ourselves. It generally happens when either we're having a conversation with someone who is superior and has more knowledge and experience than us in a context to give them respect (so that we don't look that dumb). Or it may happen in those situations where we're talking to someone for the first time or talking to a person whom we may have certain liking or interest. 

Further, what happens is we do those things or behave in a manner that we may or may not be in reality. It's not like every time a person is showing off his good side or good traits, but sometimes a person could be the same as he is in reality! Come on! We cannot always look to the negative side of life; we've to be positive in many aspects of it. What all we need to remember is that the changes we often observe in each other can be brought out in two ways; either people bring changes in them wishfully or with passing time people change.

Time changes a person; you know when he/she goes through some extreme circumstances or hardships and struggles of life. Take an example of a person who has just come out from a long term, committed relationship or a person who is suffering from grief of death of his near and dear one. The hard consequences of separation from their loved ones will automatically transform an individual from head to tail. Also, because of the psychological mental torture and continuous thoughts about the bad phase of your life makes the person either aggressive and frustrating individual or he/she becomes so quiet and introvert that they do not wish to speak about anything that happened, to anyone. During this phase of life people avoid sharing their bad experiences because they have already suffered and gone through so much pain, depression and sorrow that further they do not want to get through it over and over again. In this context changes occurring in person's life is because of time and situations automatically and not because of their wish.

 It is easier to say to a person that you've changed a lot but if you look behind, you may see a bunch of reasons that why so and so happened and what is the reason for this transformation. So, in this complex and different perspective based concept called 'changes & times' all you can do is, try to understand them well with patience and not being judgemental towards anyone's behaviour or character.

Also, we cannot say ‘why people are the way they are’, because maybe they need more love and affection, more attention, care and support of few right people to overcome obstacles in their life. There are many people who are involved in everyone's good times but there are just few people who support people in their bad times and their sufferings. If you can't help people then don't infuriate them either. 

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