LET GO OF EVERYTHING

"Sometimes you let go of people without noticing. You stop thinking of them every day. You stop waiting for them to reply to you. You stop allowing them to take up so much space in your life. You move on, you go about your day without worrying about them. You stop expecting them to come back with an apology. You accept that they are no longer a part of your life. You just let them go, simple as that."

This was the quote posted by "Word Porn", an online community which have the world's greatest authors or writers as admins over there. I mean look how nicely this quote conveyed the message of "Self Worth". This extract has such a deep meaning and it kinda touched my soul, so that's why thought of sharing with all of you.

It's just that, inspite of so many things that have happened or are happening, we try to move on in order to overcome those thoughts and pain. The thing that I don't understand is why those thoughts about someone or something that we don't want to remember or think about; bothers us to an extent that we go mad and act like crazy personalities! Inspite of practising the healing procedures why even that "one time or once" we think about the stuff that would make us frustrated, sad, or in depression mode again. I mean, why inspite of already knowing the fact and consequences about consistently thinking of the particular thought or person will hurt us; why we do those things to ourselves?? 

It's on you whether you want to accept the reality or not but it does not changes with the fact that if a person who has gone out of your life, maybe who doesn't care about your existence, or don't want you in their life, or don't value you; are not gonna come back to your life. Why the hell you don't want to accept the known fact that "God has better plans for you" and if he's taking someone or something from you then he has something more worthful that should be given to you at right time and place. 

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?

• All you have to do is keep patience and stop running behind those reasons that why things happened the way they did or behind people who you want them to be in your life; its simply either their choice or Almighty's. Don't run behind those things that you don't have control over or you can't control, simple as that. Keep things simple, don't get infuriated, confused or complicate things for yourself...pls for god's sake.

• What my opinion regarding this serious problem is trying to make our will power so strong and to become the master of our mind not slaves. Strong will power can help us not to think about any stuff that that would give us pain and or spoil our mood and day.

• We cannot become 100% successful but at least we can try our best and can succeed 50%. But that 50% would further encourage us to fight all the problems bravely and with mental calmness

• Let go of the fear, depression, overthinking and get yourself free out of the pathetic state that doesn't suit anyone. Because further it would hurt and mentally destroy you, and only you not someone else.

I don't want you to read my blogs just for the sole purpose of reading, rather I want you to practically apply those principles in your life to obtain results you actually want to see. No one has the right to hurt, dominate and bully you and "why to give the key of your happiness in someone else's hand" when it only belongs to you!! :) 

 "Spend your time in making yourselves better because there is no replacement for anyone in this world. You know you deserve the world and you've your own worth!!"

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10 Things you should definitely do this Monsoon

Rainy Season or Monsoon whenever it comes, brings a sense of joy and liveliness all around. The weather gets amazingly romantic and pleasant. The fresh and cool winds refreshes our soul and rejuvenates everything around. The petrichor after the raindrops touches the soil is so soothing. In this season the cool winds or what I call is; 'the air of love and happiness' heals the person and his surroundings and make him forget about all his pain and sorrow. 

So! here are the following 10 Things you should definitely do this Monsoon:

1. The Street Food

The love for street foods especially during rains is quite difficult to explain in words. So! don't forget to eat a chai-samosa or the chai-pakora combo!

most deadly combination ever (chai-pakoras-samosa)

2. Avoid having indoor table breakfasts.

Instead have your food outside either on terraces or your balcony. It feels great eating out in such a wow weather!!!

3. Hangout with your friends in some cool or open areas.

Paddle through humble lakes in and around city! It could be family picnic lunch at India Gate as well. enjoy!

Indraprastha Lake, Old Fort, Delhi

4. The most important thing you shouldn't miss is the rain dance party!

Play all back to back rocking Bollywood nos. and dance on them!! Go! and drench yourself out and enjoy the rains. Call out all your buddies!!

5. Go on a long evening or morning walks.

You can ride through the most beautiful roads and trails in your city!! This will keep you fit as well as re-freshened! 

Connaught Place, New Delhi

 

6. Go and shop either online or you can go to the markets.

 Buy things that fascinate you the most! These could be buying from a 'seasonal monsoon sale' or why not to try markets such as Sarojini Nagar! It would be fun! 

Sarojini Nagar neck-piece collection

 

7. Grab your favorite author's work and book a nook in city's cutest bookshop. 

A cup of coffee would be a great companion! CMYK at Greater Kailash - 2 is a treat for those who like their books to have a visual appeal. Other one Spell and Bound could be a nice choice!

Location:C-11/2 SDA Market (opposite IIT main gate), New Delhi

 

 

8. Attend the famous Red Earth's Monsoon Festival.

Red Earth is an independent private arts organization based in New Delhi.The vision behind Red Earth is to celebrate culture in India in all its varied manifestations, in an unlimited way. The monsoon festival redefines art and culture; it is a unique festival to renew the disappearing traditions and cultural practices. This is the place for all the die-hard fans of handmade products, indian craft, music, theater, fashion, and art. This well-celebrated monsoon fest involves visual art, workshops, markets, theater, photography walks.

 9. Listen to your favorite artist's album.

And don't forget to hum the song whole heartedly because the pleasant weather + the amazing music makes a great combination to enjoy the weather. So! what are you waiting? put your headphones on and sing!!

 

 

10. Don't forget to step out with your camera.

Capture the most beautiful spots and shots because the city looks gorgeous after the shower. 

 So, that's all for today!! If you love this post then do tell me by commenting below and sharing it as much as you can and do not forget to follow me on google + or subscribing me through e-mail  so that you don't miss any post by me! Till then stay happy, blessed and think positive!! Do tell me what you want to see in my further posts!
And yeah! HAPPY MONSOON !!!!
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